Seems like a pot calling the kettle black to me - if that was on (his) Facebook, then similarly taking the time to put it out all the way over here. Why? For the quick ego boost from everyone else's compliments (on how you think you taught him a lesson)? So what you blocked them. Big deal.
You also "have a choice...walk away and forget about it" etc.
"I being an adult would actually choose the high road and walk away but that is me" - boastful words but ironically followed by walking over here and offering "I am willing to share names in private" - doesn't really sound like forget about it, being an adult, or choosing the high road.
If someone tells you that you are not their cup of tea, do you try and publicly shame them, body shame them etc... or do you act like an adult. I called him on his BS and I will keep calling people out on their BS because this community needs less of it and more acceptance.
You want to know what happened, the person in question posted for the public to see a private conversation in which he received negative comment, and then when called out about it, said person gets beligent with me. He as we all do have to option to do better. Yes I'm willing to share names as I know for a fact the same person has done the same thing to anyone who just doesn't do it for him.
If you "trespassed" on his Facebook just to fight someone else's battle as a knight in shining armour, it would be totally expected that he gets belligerent with you. For you to bring it over here and share names to discuss your encounter with him, that is not much different from him posting about his own experience either.
Not many, but there are a number of guys on here that will just not take ‘no’ for an answer. It does not matter how polite you are to them, they always take offence to the negative answer and get very upset. They often leave me no option other than to block them.
The up-side is that there are so many great people on this site that the negative ones are a very small and sad part of what is a great community.
Today I blocked two members on here because I don't want anything to do with their negativity and meanness. The reason being is that some people need to grow up. Last night I responded to a post on Facebook made my a member of this site. He decided to post a screen shot of a person telling him that he didn't do it for him. However, I responded to that post with the following:
"But then you take the time to screen cap only a small part of the conversion and put it out there. Why? For the quick ego boost from every one else's complements? So what you don't do it for him and he had the auddicity to actually tell you. Big deal."
Since then this same person has pulled the same thing with me, and gone so far as to hurl insults etc...
If you are someone that can't take it when someone says that "you don't do it for them" or your not there type. Fine then, you have a choice. You say walk away and forget about it or you can be like this person and do everything in your power to boost your ego at someone else's expense. I being an adult would actually choose the high road and walk away but that is me. I am willing to share names in private if people would like to know.
punch (8)
1/11/2023 5:40 PMSeems like a pot calling the kettle black to me - if that was on (his) Facebook, then similarly taking the time to put it out all the way over here. Why? For the quick ego boost from everyone else's compliments (on how you think you taught him a lesson)? So what you blocked them. Big deal.
You also "have a choice...walk away and forget about it" etc.
"I being an adult would actually choose the high road and walk away but that is me" - boastful words but ironically followed by walking over here and offering "I am willing to share names in private" - doesn't really sound like forget about it, being an adult, or choosing the high road.
JJ Sparks (14)
1/11/2023 8:11 PM(In reply to this)
If someone tells you that you are not their cup of tea, do you try and publicly shame them, body shame them etc... or do you act like an adult. I called him on his BS and I will keep calling people out on their BS because this community needs less of it and more acceptance.
punch (8)
1/11/2023 8:30 PM(In reply to this)
His own behaviour will put others off. Don't you see the irony of you trying to shame him for shaming others?
JJ Sparks (14)
1/11/2023 8:08 PM(In reply to this)
You want to know what happened, the person in question posted for the public to see a private conversation in which he received negative comment, and then when called out about it, said person gets beligent with me. He as we all do have to option to do better. Yes I'm willing to share names as I know for a fact the same person has done the same thing to anyone who just doesn't do it for him.
punch (8)
1/11/2023 8:26 PM(In reply to this)
If you "trespassed" on his Facebook just to fight someone else's battle as a knight in shining armour, it would be totally expected that he gets belligerent with you. For you to bring it over here and share names to discuss your encounter with him, that is not much different from him posting about his own experience either.
Churd (78 )
1/11/2023 2:13 PMNot many, but there are a number of guys on here that will just not take ‘no’ for an answer. It does not matter how polite you are to them, they always take offence to the negative answer and get very upset. They often leave me no option other than to block them.
The up-side is that there are so many great people on this site that the negative ones are a very small and sad part of what is a great community.
JJ Sparks (14)
1/11/2023 12:35 AMToday I blocked two members on here because I don't want anything to do with their negativity and meanness. The reason being is that some people need to grow up. Last night I responded to a post on Facebook made my a member of this site. He decided to post a screen shot of a person telling him that he didn't do it for him. However, I responded to that post with the following:
"But then you take the time to screen cap only a small part of the conversion and put it out there. Why? For the quick ego boost from every one else's complements? So what you don't do it for him and he had the auddicity to actually tell you. Big deal."
Since then this same person has pulled the same thing with me, and gone so far as to hurl insults etc...
If you are someone that can't take it when someone says that "you don't do it for them" or your not there type. Fine then, you have a choice. You say walk away and forget about it or you can be like this person and do everything in your power to boost your ego at someone else's expense. I being an adult would actually choose the high road and walk away but that is me. I am willing to share names in private if people would like to know.