Thank you, gentlemen, for your interesting, thoughtful replies so far. There is probably much more to be said on the subject but I appreciate the trouble you have all taken so far.
But I shouldn't be surprised. There are of course a few less pleasant people on our site but they seem to constitute a very small minority: most people here seem to be supportive, tolerant, interesting.
Anyway, it's good - and sort of encouraging - to find that some of you share my own indifference to "dangly bits".
Yes: if no children or animals are harmed and both participants are happy, safe, agreed on any boundaries and having FUN, difficult to see what's the harm.
That's a very odd statement and the way you've phrased it comes off as a lot of internalized homophobia and I'm concerned there may be a lot of sexual repression going on. At no point was anyone suggesting sex with kids or animals, breaches in consent and why would you say that even when everything is kosher it's hard to see the harm implying that consensual play by two men is always inherently immoral or harmful? Is that really what you're trying to say?
So sorry if my light-hearted post came across as homophobic or in any other way offensive. Definitely NOT what I intended, so I am quite surprised by your reaction, ChrisWrestling.
Of COURSE consensual play between consenting adults is not reprehensible, immoral or harmful. Sex with kids, animals, breaches in consent, however? The thought, of course, just makes me feel quite sick.
No: I was ONLY thinking of, referring to, joshing, films etc where current orthodoxy seems to OBLIGE the insertion of a formal notice in the credits "No animals were harmed in the making of this film ..."
That's really all I meant.
AN IMPORTANT FORMAL NOTE:
"One MF member (moi) WAS slightly disturbed and saddened in the making of this post ... but I hope NO-one else?"
it's just one of the best things!
having your hair in a firm grip, placing your chin on the very right spot carefully, then you slowly feel it, like when roller coaster is reaching it's highest point, you begin to feel butterflies all over your stomach as you feel them on sides of your head, slowly covering your ears, neck and jaw
juicy smooth flesh of two massive thighs, huge muscle fibers that are perfectly covered with right amount of fat to make them squeezable and also squeeze"able"
you can claw them, you can punch them, you can try to pull them apart digging your fingers deep in between them, but nothing works, all you can do is to panic and struggle, kicking the air and the floor, gasping and gagging while staring right in the relaxed cold eyes of your opponent, until you are nothing but a drooling limp mess sleeping right on his crotch
I think it's not just about losing all your control over your surroundings, but how to lose it! crotch/ass have always been two nasty part of human body!
it deff adds to a submissive's hunger
On the one hand, it was through headscissors that I discovered that I love the smell of dangly bits in spandex. I think there is an erotic asphyxiation aspect to it. There's also the blood choke part of it. There's also this feeling of being helplessly fully engulfed in muscle.
I love being headscissored and I would rather the guy wear boxer briefs or underwear. There is just something super hot about nice legs wrapped around my head or neck. Love the slow build up of pressure over the quick submission
I agree. In fact, I’m not into naked wrestling at all. Part of what’s hot for me is the gear, especially when it makes legs look really hot while scissoring!
dangly bits ... <grin> ... I've met a number of guys over the years whose interest in the dangly bits was very minor, compared to a major interest in scissor holds. So you're not at all alone in that way.
I don’t know the right answers, but here are some possibilities.
There could be a component about the need of experiencing control coming from someone else. This need may come from some subconscious wirings that developed over the years - mainly in childhood. Other wirings may associate this type of control to thighs, squeezes, and / or muscles. And perhaps a proximity to that is head scissors!
Obviously, this is not a fully baked concept, but there is a possibility that the interest in head scissors is coming from a deeper place.
edscissors (31 )
11/13/2023 10:02 PMThank you, gentlemen, for your interesting, thoughtful replies so far. There is probably much more to be said on the subject but I appreciate the trouble you have all taken so far.
But I shouldn't be surprised. There are of course a few less pleasant people on our site but they seem to constitute a very small minority: most people here seem to be supportive, tolerant, interesting.
Anyway, it's good - and sort of encouraging - to find that some of you share my own indifference to "dangly bits".
ChrisWrestling (43 )
11/13/2023 11:05 PM(In reply to this)
You're fine to be indifferent about dangly bits, more for the rest of us. You do you, as long as everyone is having fun.
edscissors (31 )
11/13/2023 11:18 PM(In reply to this)
Yes: if no children or animals are harmed and both participants are happy, safe, agreed on any boundaries and having FUN, difficult to see what's the harm.
ChrisWrestling (43 )
11/14/2023 12:43 AM(In reply to this)
That's a very odd statement and the way you've phrased it comes off as a lot of internalized homophobia and I'm concerned there may be a lot of sexual repression going on. At no point was anyone suggesting sex with kids or animals, breaches in consent and why would you say that even when everything is kosher it's hard to see the harm implying that consensual play by two men is always inherently immoral or harmful? Is that really what you're trying to say?
edscissors (31 )
11/14/2023 1:31 AM(In reply to this)
So sorry if my light-hearted post came across as homophobic or in any other way offensive. Definitely NOT what I intended, so I am quite surprised by your reaction, ChrisWrestling.
Of COURSE consensual play between consenting adults is not reprehensible, immoral or harmful. Sex with kids, animals, breaches in consent, however? The thought, of course, just makes me feel quite sick.
No: I was ONLY thinking of, referring to, joshing, films etc where current orthodoxy seems to OBLIGE the insertion of a formal notice in the credits "No animals were harmed in the making of this film ..."
That's really all I meant.
AN IMPORTANT FORMAL NOTE:
"One MF member (moi) WAS slightly disturbed and saddened in the making of this post ... but I hope NO-one else?"
ChrisWrestling (43 )
11/14/2023 1:41 AM(In reply to this)
I'm glad you addressed this, I would hate for anyone to misunderstand your intentions.
edscissors (31 )
11/14/2023 1:46 AM(In reply to this)
DID anyone misunderstand me? I hope not. But thanks anyway, ChrisWrestling.
Poria (0)
11/12/2023 7:13 AMit's just one of the best things!
having your hair in a firm grip, placing your chin on the very right spot carefully, then you slowly feel it, like when roller coaster is reaching it's highest point, you begin to feel butterflies all over your stomach as you feel them on sides of your head, slowly covering your ears, neck and jaw
juicy smooth flesh of two massive thighs, huge muscle fibers that are perfectly covered with right amount of fat to make them squeezable and also squeeze"able"
you can claw them, you can punch them, you can try to pull them apart digging your fingers deep in between them, but nothing works, all you can do is to panic and struggle, kicking the air and the floor, gasping and gagging while staring right in the relaxed cold eyes of your opponent, until you are nothing but a drooling limp mess sleeping right on his crotch
I think it's not just about losing all your control over your surroundings, but how to lose it! crotch/ass have always been two nasty part of human body!
it deff adds to a submissive's hunger
chokeholdsubmission (0)
11/15/2023 12:44 AM(In reply to this)
Thank you for this absolutely beautiful description, putting feelings of one being headscissored into words so perfectly. Exciting!!!
Manly sub (0)
11/12/2023 12:13 PM(In reply to this)
You write very beautifully 👌
wrestlepa (38)
11/11/2023 2:26 PMFeel his legs slowly tighten around me keeping me in a tight prolong scissors holds.
ChrisWrestling (43 )
11/11/2023 6:56 AMOn the one hand, it was through headscissors that I discovered that I love the smell of dangly bits in spandex. I think there is an erotic asphyxiation aspect to it. There's also the blood choke part of it. There's also this feeling of being helplessly fully engulfed in muscle.
wrestleinastoria (29)
11/09/2023 9:37 PMI love being headscissored and I would rather the guy wear boxer briefs or underwear. There is just something super hot about nice legs wrapped around my head or neck. Love the slow build up of pressure over the quick submission
NYC Wrestling (65)
11/09/2023 2:51 PMI agree. In fact, I’m not into naked wrestling at all. Part of what’s hot for me is the gear, especially when it makes legs look really hot while scissoring!
skweezhard (7 )
11/09/2023 1:34 AMdangly bits ... <grin> ... I've met a number of guys over the years whose interest in the dangly bits was very minor, compared to a major interest in scissor holds. So you're not at all alone in that way.
edscissors (31 )
11/08/2023 11:28 PMDoes anyone have any suggestions? Apart from the proximity to "the dangly bits" - and all the intimate possibilities which might then occur?
Personally (yes, I know this is a bit mad!) I've NEVER been interested in anyone's "dangly bits" - so please wear shorts to headscissor me.
Am I alone in WANTING to be headscissored ... but having no interest at all in your "dangly bits"?
Manly sub (0)
11/10/2023 11:48 AM(In reply to this)
I don’t know the right answers, but here are some possibilities.
There could be a component about the need of experiencing control coming from someone else. This need may come from some subconscious wirings that developed over the years - mainly in childhood. Other wirings may associate this type of control to thighs, squeezes, and / or muscles. And perhaps a proximity to that is head scissors!
Obviously, this is not a fully baked concept, but there is a possibility that the interest in head scissors is coming from a deeper place.